How are YOU making decisions?

"Fulfillment and inner peace does not happen because life is perfect. It unfolds moment by moment as you embrace and appreciate the fullness of your experience. What causes struggle and blocks you from experiencing complete joy is your desire for people and things to be different than they are."

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You have to pull your ego out of every situation that you want to make a decision about. Ego-based decision making means "the grass is always greener," but we all know that this is fallacy.

ONLY YOU ARE RESONSIBLE FOR YOUR HAPPINESS.

That is not to say that during difficult times, you should not require assistance, because assistance is always helpful.